The Perceptualware Post
#52 | December 2025
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This week I look back and reflect on fear, craft, compounding, and the strange gift of showing up.
There’s a question I’ve been avoiding all year, and now that I’m at week fifty-two, I can’t dodge it anymore:
What have I actually learned from doing this for a full year?
Because if I’m honest, the answer is not what I expected.
It’s bigger.
And smaller.
And more human.
The lessons…
The Work Is Not the Hard Part. Being Seen Is.
This whole journey started with two catalysts:
Dan Koe’s writing course
Ali Abdaal saying: “Commit to YouTube for a year and see what happens.”
On paper, it sounded simple. Do the reps. Build the discipline. Publish weekly.
But the real work wasn’t the writing.
It was facing the quieter, more embarrassing fears:
What will people think?
Will old colleagues judge me?
Will family talk about it behind my back?
Who do I think I am?
Here’s the uncomfortable truth that took me 52 weeks to internalise:
Most people aren’t judging you. They’re too busy judging themselves.
Once that lands, half the internal resistance dissolves.
In fact its actually more hard to be seen rather than actually being in the worlds spotlight. Especially given the attention economy we clearly live in.
So why bother?
The Invisible Skill Behind All Skills
This year taught me that every craft has a meta-skill beneath it.
Writing isn't just writing.
YouTube isn’t just videos.
Archery isn’t just aim and form.
Underneath them all is the same question:
Can you stay with the task long enough for compounding to begin?
Most people can’t.
I couldn’t, for years.
Because staying with a task requires calm.
A presence.
Self-trust.
The ability to not betray yourself midway.
For most of my life, anxiety stole that from me. I lived in a constant performance zone — test anxiety, social anxiety, fear of negative evaluation. I was even fired once because I froze at a cash register.
And yet I kept doing things that triggered the fear:
Joined a band in my teens
Wanted to give talks
Wanted to work in Tech and a stint overseas
Wanted to serve, to contribute, to create something that mattered
I had the ambition… but not the nervous system to stay inside the moment.
This is the hardest thing I learned this year:
Mastery is not talent.
Mastery is the ability to stay with yourself inside the task.
Archery Made This Visible
I picked up field archery this year as a thing to do with my daughter. She stopped.
I didn’t. Suddenly I was surrounded by a tribe of mostly ordinary people who were shockingly dedicated to a craft that requires:
absolute presence
emotional neutrality
precision under pressure
the ability to reset after every mistake
And then I met this idea of target panic and all of its manifestations.
This thing that happens where your mind, body, and identity collide and your hands stop doing what you tell them to do.
It’s humiliating.
Exposing.
Raw.
And I loved it. Because it was the perfect metaphor for everything I’ve been avoiding in my creative life.
When the stakes feel high, your nervous system hijacks the moment.
When the stakes feel low, you grow.
Gary Vee says people don’t post because it’s a self-esteem issue. What goes through their head, about what people will think of them, so they don’t.
Archery showed me he’s right. Something will enter your mind and take you off task or focus. Distraction, discomfort, the thing that you were meant to do yesterday. I leaarned that there is a different between having a thought and thoughts having you.
And if I wanted to grow, I had to walk directly through that doorway — not around it.
The Compounding Curve (In Fintech, In Skills, In Life)
I had the majority of my career in the financial services industry and nineteen of those years within a single fintech - which taught me something most people never get to see:
The full company lifecycle.
Startup → growth → maturity → bureaucracy → promise of acquisition → cultural entropy.
I stayed partly to prove to myself that I could, and partly because I’m obsessed with seeing the whole arc of things.
Fintech also taught me compounding.
The curve that looks flat… flat… flat…
and then suddenly bends upward.
Most people expect life to be linear.
It isn’t.
Morgan Housel said:
“The most important part of compounding is the long tail. Most of the returns come at the end.”
That applies to:
money
skills
emotional habits
creative expression
identity
resilience
self-worth
And it has a dark side too:
Negative self-talk compounds.
Anxious patterns compound.
Perfectionism compounds.
The stones you don’t remove from your shoes become lifelong injuries.
This year, through AI and deliberate introspection, I finally started removing some of them.
The Bon-Jovi Lesson (And the Humbling Reality of Reps)
I recently watched the Bon Jovi documentary, expecting nostalgia (which I did) and instead, I got an lesson. this band rocketed to success during my formative teenage years, they were ever present with anthems in the background of summer and soundtrack of our lives.
I knew the storeis of formation and Jon seeping floors at a recording studio and recording a demo tape and getting it to DJs after the radio stations rejected him. What I didnt quite apprecaite was the amount of on the job touring they did. And now at 60 and facing the regretted retirement due to his vocal chords - undertook surgery. That Jon is still trying and now to build a legacy, still risking embarrassment, still pushing himself beyond his limits.
Love them or not — their work ethic was staggering.
Their live performances were their religion.
Their reps were outrageous.
As Hormozi puts it:
“If you produce enough, it becomes unlikely that you don’t succeed.”
Photography taught me this.
The gym is teaching me this.
Archery is teaching me this
This newsletter taught me this.
And YouTube will teach me this next.
What 52 Weeks Actually Gave Me
When I zoom out, here’s what this year gave me:
1. A body of work — even if imperfect.
I showed up.
Even when I didn’t want to.
Even when I felt empty.
2. A clearer nervous system.
I stopped running from myself.
3. Evidence.
Not hope, not theory — evidence that I can do this.
I created an App, updated my Website and collected my thoughts, dived into Photography, walked regularly and started working out. I let AI get to my source code and worked hard to reset my belief system and I showed up each week to express myself.
4. A new identity forming.
Not the fintech guy.
Not the anxious guy.
Not the perfectionist.
Someone else.
Someone freer.
5. A shot sequence for my life.
Archery taught me more about creativity than any book.
When in doubt:
Breathe.
Anchor.
Aim.
Release.
Reset.
Repeat
So What’s Next ? (The Honest Version)
2026 is the year I return to YouTube.
Not with ego.
Not with pressure.
But with presence.
Because the resistance is loud, and I’ve learned that resistance is a compass.
I don’t need genius.
I need volume.
I need calm.
I need reps.
I need a shot sequence I trust.
And I want to document this before chapter — the shaky, unpolished phase most creators hide — so that after the compounding takes hold, I remember what this felt like.
Ryan Holiday said:
“The obstacle is the way.”
YouTube is my obstacle.
Which means YouTube is my way.
Final Thought
If this year taught me anything, it’s this:
The greatest gift you can give yourself is staying in the room with your own life long enough for compounding to begin.
I’m staying in the room now.
Let’s see where year two takes us.
Be well
Chris
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