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#87 Your worst feeling is guarding something you love

Anxiety, guilt, anger and sadness can reveal what matters to you. Here's how to find the value behind the feeling—and understand why part of you might want to hold on to it.

#86 You Can Be Right and Still Make the Conversation Worse

The Angry, Blaming Self, the need to be understood, and the part of an argument we can actually change.

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#85 You Don’t Have to Feel Ready to Begin

The Fearful Self, uncertainty, and the cost of making confidence a condition of action.

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#84 When someone won’t let the argument end

What years of fighting myself taught me about conflict, ego and staying calm when someone else loses the plot

Agency

#83 The second job I gave my ambition

The Special Self, depression, and the fear that accepting yourself will cost you your ambition.

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#82 At 54, I’m questioning what comes next

Some things are better. Some still need work. Maybe progress is learning how to keep living in the middle.

TEAM CBT

#81 Thirty years trying to fix the same part of myself

That inner voice of yours isn't broken. It's got the wrong job.

#80 I took a break from work. I felt worse.

Workload isn’t the only variable. Ask what kind of effort leaves you more alive.

#79 The promise I keep making to my future self

The problem with waiting for the future to start living your life.

#87 Your worst feeling is guarding something you love

#86 You Can Be Right and Still Make the Conversation Worse

#85 You Don’t Have to Feel Ready to Begin

#84 When someone won’t let the argument end

#83 The second job I gave my ambition

#82 At 54, I’m questioning what comes next

#81 Thirty years trying to fix the same part of myself

#80 I took a break from work. I felt worse.

#79 The promise I keep making to my future self

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